TO YOU, FROM A GIRL WHO HAS BEEN IN YOUR SHOES!

GIRL, 

Proverbs 14:12,13 There’s a way of life that looks harmless enough; look again—it leads straight to hell.
Sure, those people appear to be having a good time,
but all that laughter will end in heartbreak.

As I look at your choices my heart is sad! Right now you are so full of pride and you think you know it all. You think you know what choices are the best for you! Problem is you don’t see the trap Satan has laid out for you, so you are choosing evil over what is right. You are choosing rebellion over obedience! 

John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

You are believing every lie the devil is feeding you! The sad thing is the devil is using the people closest to you to feed you the lies! The lies that you are being told are so convincing you don’t even see them as lies anymore, they are your new reality. The louder the lie gets and the more real it becomes, the further away the truth gets. There are people that are close to you feeding you the truth and trying to guide you into the right choices, but you think they are trying to ruin your life, you think they are trying to control you & kill all the fun the world is offering you. But what you can’t see is that they are just trying to protect you from many tears and hurts that those choices come with!  Your are in a battle of good and evil. The evil is more appealing now, it seems more fun to hang with the bad crowd and to get the attention of being the “bad girl”, but I have to tell you, you are the only person having to live with the consequences of your actions, no one else gets the guilt and shame. You can put the blame on how you were raised or what someone did to you, but at the end of the day, it has to do with your decision about what has happened to you. The thing you really wanted is love & that is the very thing you kept pushing away! The pit of making your own choices is dark and hopeless!  Sin is fun for a minute, then you get so trapped in the lie that your happy with how your life is, that you can’t even see or hear the truth even when its presented to you! 

Proverbs 25:28 A person without self-control is like a house with its doors and windows knocked out! You are opening your life up to devastation!!!! When the storms come, there is no protection!

From someone who has been in your shoes........